First i would like to say HAPPPPPY VALENTINES Day to ALL THE LOVERS AND FRIENDS out there today who might be spending the day with each other, or the night or just the moment.
Persoanlly I enjoy this Holiday. A lot of people do not care or simply HATE V-day.
It is okay , whatever stance you have on it. Well as long as you ar not allowing ONE bad V-day or bad Relationship mess up a whole day for you.
Valentines day is a speical day to me, because i think its one of the few dys of the year people SHOW there love [which is a problem in its own]
People get emotional and try to go ALLL OUT for that significant other.Personally i would like to be showed love 24/7 365 but Feb 14th is a good day to start that.
Today there will be many people in relationships sharing the love the have, and some who are not in a relationship but will be enjoying eachothers company siple because they do not want to be alone [fine by me. do ya thing]
Although i like this holiday there are a few flaws:
It should not be a one time thing
A gift should NOT be expected...rather time spent wsith the person
Females should have the OPTION on giving a gift back
It sometimes helps create old "fake" feelings
People settle for less and go bk to an ex just so they WONT be lonely
Now for the paeople who HATE this holiday, because they are lonely....
I personally have never HATED V-day but i have been at a point where it was just "another day'
The simple cure for this is LOVE YOURSELF! do something nice for yourself. Spend time with anyone u care about [friend.family.pet.anyone]
Do not let people dictate to you that 'V-day is a relationship day" It is a LOVE DAY!
Now that leaves....WHAT IS LOVE?
To be honest love is defined by everyone DIfferently.
For myself:
Love is Trust
Love is Respect
Love is UNCONDITIONAL
Love is Understanding
Love is Loyal
Love is NEVER MEANT TO BRING PAIN!
LOVE IS HARD!
So on this V-day if ur NOT feeling UnLOVED! Know that SOMEONE LOVES U...even if its urself :)
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